I’m in an incredibly lucky position here at Sashapua.com
Every single day I open my inbox to see positive comments, feedback and a bunch of awesome letters that you guys send in just to say thank you!
A lot of my skills and teachings are out there for free via YouTube or my articles section and people pick up great skills and lessons without me having face to face or any real form of contact – that’s awesome! I started all of this to help as many guys as I can and I’m now in the luckiest position that I just don’t know how many lives I’ve improved. I’ll never know. It’s amazing. What keeps me smiling and keeps me inspired is when I get a letter or email from a guy just saying thanks – and telling me which bits really helped him out.
I never get tired of hearing awesome stories where guys succeed. If you’ve got any tales of improving your life (and I’m the one to blame!) I’d really appreciate it if you posted them below. Here’s a couple of example emails I’ve had that will hopefully inspire others to succeed too
– Sasha Daygame, 2012
Hi Ryan, I hope you’re well. I took a weekend bootcamp with you a year and a half ago. 8 months ago, I met the girl of my dreams using the skills you taught me for which I am eternally grateful.
SashaPUA.Cooooooom
How am ya mate? Strawberry here again. Because of you I now see feel the fear… and do it anyway.
After that first approach, I am on fire.
Can you tell me though, how do you deal with people or friends who now think you’re cocky, or not the well mannered person you used to be? Surely you must have got that?
Nah, I was always a cocky bastard. Now, I’m a cocky bastard who’s good with the ladies
I’d just reply to haters with more cockyness….. I.E “Don’t be jealous because I’m more awesome than you!” etc…. or “listen, just because I’ve got 3 girlfriends… don’t player hate!”
I really have to add mine !! =)
Now, i really needed to thank you for all your videos and all the stuff you’re doing. Besides targeting at girls, you generate a real lifestyle that reminds me that real men still exist, and it feels good to see you !! I see life just like you do, but you know sometimes it’s hard when you feel you’re alone. So, i really thank you for what you stand for, i think it makes me feel good to know that there is some other men like you with their own personality and just enjoying life !!! (By the way, I’d love you to make videos of you doing stupid shit, not just chasing girls, i think that would be awesome !!) This was maybe a little bit akward, but had to be said..! I wish i had met you, i wish i had a father or a friend like you, but most importantly i hope that you understand when I say that even if we never met, I LOVE YOU SASHA ! (in a friend way, haha) You just bring some hope and positive mind, keeeeep going !
Hey Sasha ! I’m french, i’m 18 and I just wanted to tell you that you changed my life, that’s why i owe you at least this comment.. My father left when I was young and I never have a real man figure, but you really inspire me.(I think you could suit well the nietzsche’s overman, oh yeah!!) You love life so much, you just don’t give a shit, and you live your life according to these principles you believe in.. You’re a great philosopher sasha !
High 5s !!
Theo =)
hey sasha i was gunna try ur method but i was being a bitch but 2marrow def gunna do it
Hey brother…. shit, thanks man. You’re making me all teary eyed and shit!!!
For all the douchebags out there… for every 1000 douchebags, it’s worth it to get a message like that from one real mofo’ like you.
I love you too. Hopefully one day I’ll meet you – but not until more frech guys demand I come to France!! (I think they are too arrogant to admit they need help with the ladies over there too, hmm?)
S
oh and another thing is it better to wait 4the girl u like to pass by then step in front of her and approach or in front cuz wen i think of doin it from the front i get nervous no pun intended
I currently live in the south of france, and i think that genrally, french guys aren’t that bad with ladies ! I used to be myself the “nice guy” (didn’t work a lot!) but thanks to you, I try to have a different approach on wimen.. I still don’t have the balls you have to do that in any situation, cause doing it alone is hard, but i’m working out ! You help me “working my balls”, it’s the greatest thing a man can do for an another man !
Anyway, let me know if you come to france, i’d be happy to meet you !!
Keep going your amazing stuff bro, you’re too cool !!
Theo
Dude this shit is legit. I was doing all this indirect stuff for about 3 months with NO results. Then I got info for the Daygame Blueprint somehow, listened to the podcasts, heard you and you mentioned Mode 1 and BAM! It was like a freight train through my brain. Started reading all the direct artistry I could (I bought the Mode One ebook by Rodger Alan Currie I mean…shit, Alan Rodger Currie) and everything just seemed to click. Anyways I went out and tried it on this girl I used to know and caught up with last week. Any other time I would have been a little bitch but not this time. I let her know exactly what was on my mind and she was all over me! In the shower, on her friends bed then went back to her parents house and fucked her good and proper. I mean she wasn’t the best root I’ve had (I dated a Peruvian model back when I was pimpin’ at 17/18) but it ended a fuckin’ massive drought for me and I can see plenty more in the near future. I joked to this fuckin hot model chick my friend knows that she should revenge fuck me to spite her ex and she just stared at me like I couldn’t be serious, then drops her gaze claps her hands and goes “Yep, let’s do it!” with a little smile. I almost did a backflip I swear. Anyways this is the first time visiting your site so I thought I’d drop you some mad props. Looking forward to developing my…directness (read: growing some balls) so keep up with the killer content and visit Brisbane in Australia sometime so I can partake in a bootcamp. It’d be fuckin’ awesome to meet you dude.
MODE ONE BITCHESSSSS!
I must thank you again, good sir! Last time I was thanking you for helping me on the approach; you made me realize that its okay to hit on girls. Now I want to thank you for getting me through much more difficult obstacles and even worse limiting beliefs. More importantly, I want to thank you for setting me on the journey to meeting my current girlfriend, who is freaking AWESOME! And honestly, your advice was there for me every step of the way. I can see SO many times where, if I hadn’t read your articles and watched your videos, I would have blown the whole thing. Honestly, going all the way with this girl took a lot of hard work, a shit-ton of persistence, and the use of nearly every single bit of advice that you, Roger Alan Curry, James Marshall, and Manwhore have made available to me. Even more importantly than helping set me up with both the hottest and coolest girlfriend I’ve ever had, you’ve liberated me from nearly all of the things that used to hold me back from hitting on girls and getting physical with them. Though this relationship is going great right now, even if it doesn’t work out, I now know that I’ll be fine and that this success can be replicated.
So for more details… When we last met I was dating this girl who I didn’t really click with, but she was hot and the sex was good. However, our personality conflicts became too much for me, so I broke it off with her. The day before I did, I saw this girl wearing a skirt who had SUCH nice legs. I just knew I had to talk to her, even though she was in a group, so I just went over and befriended all of them. I wasn’t single at this moment, so I deliberately tried NOT to hit on her — just make friends. But via James Marshall style indirect direct largely aura-based game, I was pretty much hitting on her. I ended up befriending the entire group on FB, through which I got her phone number.
She was SO fucking cool. She had a super cute face that was pretty in a very unique way. She has very distinct features; I haven’t met anyone else who looks anything like her. But on top of her cute face and hot body, she’s also got a fantastic sense of humor, is an internet/video game nerd like me, and does cool stuff like Parkour. I definitely had a crush on her at this point.
Fast-forward, we end up dating. We click really well personality-wise. But, every time I try to do anything physical with her (kissing, touching, etc) she’s uncomfortable and refuses. (I later find out that this is due to some really bad past experiences with guys trying to force themselves on her.) Furthermore, it turns out she’s a virgin and has never done anything with a guy beyond making out. I found that to be mindblowing, considering how hot she is. I figured that she would have tons of guys chasing her… which she does, and even has had stalkers, but apparently she just never decided to pursue that. Anyways, that leaves me with a really awkward situation…
So here’s where you and your team of awesome dating coaches came in. In the past, I would have taken her rejection of my advances really hard, gotten butthurt, tried to verbally convince her to let me in her pants, pleaded, and eventually given up. But I remembered what you said about physical rejection — “no just means try again in a few minutes; if she’s still there with you, she wants it.” So I applied that, James Marshall’s aura/vibe-based strategies, Roger Alan Curry’s mode one behavior, and Manwhore’s simultaneous physical assertions of dominance and gentleness. She would say ‘no’ and try to push me away, I would just smile, ignore it, and keep going. I would just keep going until the point where I could feel she was going to crack and seriously get upset or want to leave, so I would just leave it right there, not act butt-hurt, and pick up where we left off next time.
Due to her serious inhibitions and discomfort with physical intimacy and the fact that we’re long distance and sometimes would go up to 4 weeks without seeing each other, escalation has been a very slow process. But I can honestly say that I pushed it to the limit every single time and I know that with any other girl, who didnt have that same emtoional baggage, would’ve given it up many times over at this point. But that said, I liked her a lot, and it was worth it to me to keep pursuing regardless of how slow it went.
Tonight I actually had sex with her for the first time. She kept telling me that she didnt want to and wasn’t ready. I just remained unphased and kept fingering her, eating her out, trying to put my dick in while she pushed me away, rinse repeat. It was really hard and honestly felt kinda rapey, but that is again where the things that you guys taught me came into play. Before your articles and videos, I didn’t have any concept of the fact that there’s a difference between token resistance and real resistance. I definitely would have stopped long before I slid my eggroll into her takeout box. For me, tonight really solidified how far I’ve come from asking permission to kiss a girl, then apologizing after (I never apologize now lol).
So thanks for teaching me how to be a man! And thanks for helping me get the best girl I’ve ever had! She’s incredibly level headed and rational, non-possessive, and freaking hilarious. To top it off, her tummy is almost as firm as mine and she gives the best blowjobs I’ve encountered thus far. She doesn’t give a shit if I don’t text her back immediately (or even within the day), has introduced me to tons of cool movies and games, and even insists on paying for dates sometimes. I have happily entered a monogamous relationship, and unlike past ones, I don’t feel trapped because I might not be able to get anyone else.
In the past few months there have been a couple of really hot girls who’ve wanted my D or tried to hook up with me — again thanks to changes in my behavior that you and your crew are responsible for — and honestly, I don’t regret missing out on those experiences at all. I am that happy with my current gf, but I also know that even if things dont work, I’m not a hopeless schmuck. I’ll be able to find another! And the credit for this goes to you sir!
Thanks so much man! I’m sure you’ve helped many others just as much!
About 2 months ago I was walking through town when I passed boots and saw this fucking beautiful girl stacking the shelves. I walked past and about 5 seconds later thought “what the fuck am i doing?!” and turned around and went in to talk to her.
I wont tell you the whole conversation but i basically went in and asked if they sold pregnancy tests, and when she showed me where they were and how they worked I asked if I could use the toilet there, or if I had to take it home. She looked confused. Loving my own amusement, I proceeded to try and convince her that I thought i was pregnant because my nipples were really sore (insert rubbing). She was really laughing and giving me all sorts of ioi’s and when i eventually said why I was really there she seemed dissapointed to tell me she had a boyfriend.
We spoke for a few minutes and i left. This weekend I was out with a few mates in a club (a place I have always hated!) and the same girl from 2 months ago runs up to me with a huge smile going “Oh My God its you!!” and grabs me, pulls me over to her friends (all equally hot) and says im this hilarious guy, and i instantly have this connection with all of them. the original girl was still with her boyfriend but that doesnt matter, when the end of the night came I left with one of her absolutely stunning friends and we spent all night and the next day fucking like rabbits. i have you to thank Sir!
That is just one of nearly countless examples in the last 6 months, you changed my life man!
BOOOOOOOOOOM !!!!!!!!
That’s what I’m talking about !!!
Having fun, being friendly, meeting people = awesome
You make me proud. Even though I’ve never taught you directly. I’m proud of you … post some of that shit on the DDS forum!!!
Dude I think that’s one of the best comments anyone’s ever left me. MAYBE THE BEST lol…..
I kind of want to cry, and hold you and shit.
BIG HUGS!!!! Hopefully we’ll meet one day and you can give me money. I mean…uh….. lunch
S
Hahah…. wel this page is supposed to be for fans of MINE- but I’ll let it slide this time
MOOOOOOOOODDDEEEEEE ONEEEEEEEEEE
-Sasha
Hey man! I am a big fan from Romania and just wanted you to know you ar very inspiring to me in getting over” the god guy problem”. You are a very cool dude and doing great work. But enough of this corny shit couse it almoust makes me wanna cry
.There is still a contradiction that i don’t quite get : that is how do you joggle betwen being a frendly guy and also a dick at the same time.Realy intrested on your advice about that because my biggest problem is that at the fist date i dont manage to create sexual atraction and be a normal frendy guy a the same time.Once again love your work man an also your inner power. respect!
Hey everybody
Sasha, your direct daygame works wonders for me.
i hate to say it, but pretty good lookijg and im 14 years old. Being 6 foot 2, inalwys got IOIs from older girls. I finally learned how to game grls that were not only strangers, but up to 6 years older than me! I go sarging biweekly at the local giant amusement park (sixflags) and ive closed at least 20 different girls.
Direct is amazing. Keep up your awesomeness!
Paul
Hey Sasha, i love your confidence man. its really something. I just wanted to ask you a question. How do you get that confidence to approach girls? i always bail when i wanna talk to a hot chick
Where do I get that confidence?
5 years of self improvement
Watch the vids on my youtube channel, that should help…..
lucky son of a bitch….
ps – The Idea of you doing indirect game is HILARIOUS!!! Can you imagine??
im 14 2day i did my first direct APPROACCH!! lol but yeh there was a girl in the miiddle but it was to hard to get to her so went with the one on the left had a mutache i was like wtf i told her she looked fucking amazing which she did but that was be4 i saw the stache lol but she said thanks and i just walked away then i approached a hot girl wit headphones on i told her she looked amazing 2 she said thanks so wat brings u 2 the mall she said i dont live her i was like obviously u dont live here its k if u do im into homeless chicks 2 lol but yeh it was my first approaches lol but u do get that rush n feel like a fuckin man
Hey Sasha,
just wanted to say I love your videos on youtube. very inspiring!
I’m average looking from Israel and before i watched your videos I had a big lack of confidence in approaching.
Just watched your vids and havent had the time to try and approach but at least now I BELIEVE in the way. I’ve read many articles but your videos actually made me believe in it.
So thanks for that
Also, do you have some motivation videos? I see you’re coming to Tel-Aviv in September but I can’t afford it although I would love to participate in one of your bootcamps sometime in the future.
Thanks man
All my video’s are motivational video’s… aren’t they?
You might consider buying my Amsterdam Seminar – it’s on sale on this page
It’s probably the most “motivational” stuff of mine you’re going to find!
S
Sasha urged me to post it for you guys to read:
I’ve been a total loser with chicks until I discovered two guys in particular: James Marshall & Sasha. After a couple weeks of rewiring my brain into confidence and openness, I finally started doing approaches and it began working quite well…
My first ever number close was a gorgeous looking chick: in her mid-twenties, exotic, tall, great body plus she’s a model for a major fashion brand. The perfect woman, except for one little detail…
She ended up having a dick.
Put more approaches dude love em I’ve learned more in a couple months then I have in ever ur fucking amazing in pua let alone life in itself I would love to have ur energy level dude I’m 2wice the person I was a couple months ago in energy keep doing wat ur doing ur gunna go a long way
How have I been unaware of my capabilities until the age of 33? I have had natural game all along. When I was successful, at anything, it seemed an accident. Now I can identify my strengths and move with purpose. I am looking for people in my area I can level with but is often too heavy a concept to quit a job and become a man from the inside out. I know sasha is busy but let him know that there are people out there who do think like him and thank him for being the voice for us! –wolfe
btw, from columbia mo….(thanks to Liam for his stereotype, made me proud!)–wolfe
bwahahaha. DUDE – you gotta tell the FULL VERSION!!!!!!!!!!
Cut and paste from the email you sent me!! hehe
S
Hey Sasha, I love the site and I love the direct approach. those girls arent stupid and they know what we really want! ha!. Quick question, is Russia and FSU still an option for daygame because some say its over now due to them having more money? would the Sasha (c) direct approach still work there? later, Hoser.
Hey sasha
I have aquestion about affects of being real.
I have recently become real, well over a period of time i have been working on myself, and i have lost friends , i am still at school, people dont like the confident straightforward way that i am. whats your opinion on that ?
oh and also, in the book radical honesty i learnt a way to express anger in a healthy way, which is ‘ i resent you for…’ , anyway people dont like it, and when i get angry with friends or family i use, and its adding to the bit where i am loosing friends. Whats your opinion on that ?
I just watched some videos on youtube. I really like your attitude, but why do you alway cross your arms when you approach a woman? Doesnt seem that confident, huh?
so, just looking for details on your trip to chicago. Not too good about navigating around a big city (another reason I want to make the trip) so a location and time would be GREAT! Just wingin it a bit here. –wolfe
Hey – Yea my team will be there, check sashapua.com for dates, they’ll be up soon
I do what I feel like
i wanna learn dating n flirting skills to get girls….
Loving your YouTube content. Really helping!
been watching your youtube videos. they’re a big motivation for me. thanks for doing what you do
you know man, i just gotta respond to that mail. i was one of
those people PUAs call “naturals”. i never understood why.
even when i did learn, i seemed to always get the chick i
really wanted out of a group of much more attractive men. i
never liked routines, and i was primarily learning how to be a
better alpha, without doing all that canned PUA materials. I
could never see what it is that attracted them, and now
finally, hearing that talk i actually understood that only the
fact that i like being who i am WAS the thing that attracted
women. and to tell you the truth, I think its one of the only
ingredients that EVERY pickup book lacks, and even more, i feel quite sad i missed your visit in israel. anyways, youre
awesome
Hey ChUcK aka SaShA u r my lifechanger..
i love ur youtube videos cause the have been fuking amazing and funny…
i m an Indian so i tried to apply ur technique here and it worked.. well it was mid level energy convo
well my first convo with the girl was like hell as i was fuking afraid and forgot wat to say .. but in my second convo i was fukingawesome and i scored her ..
Thnx to u man ..
U R GOD…
******ATTENTION PLEASE********
Hey guys, i think your program can help people out with schrizofrenia, i have read so much and it tells what i feel and how i think about life and what i think that your program can help this pyschology deseas and most of the people are man also, your program helps people out and fight the fear in man and after the things you do people life there life with happynes and think the answer for schrizofrenia is happynes, because when i felt that i didn’t had problem with fear and other emotional things in life, talking loud without knowing that i was talking loud and other things like, thinking about should i do that or not, i was my self being very funny everywhere, just myself more, and now i lost that and i am going sometimes so deap in my own thinking world what i hate, because it don’t feels like every step i am doing is not the right moment and it goes wrong :S .
Thankyou for reading this, maybe you need more information about schrizofrenia i only found dutch version, and its hard to explain it in english my english is bad…
I’m no expert in schitzophenia (I can’t even spell it) but I’ll take your comments as a compliment
I guess if killing the fear and meeting girls makes you happy, and happyness helps with schitsofrenia (still can’t spell it) then yeah – it would help
Interesting post. I wish your english was better too
Sasha
YOOOOOOOO
Glad to hear it works for someone other than me!! omgf!!
Not a God. Just preachin’ the truth brewski. See you in India at some point!
MAke sure you’re on my mailing list so you’ll know when I’m coming!
I’d say I’ll be back in Israel, but I’d probably be lying
That’s a retarded question.
hahaha, you have got a nice personality Sasha, i like that!
and something interesting, everything you learn on school you will forget, if you get older. Now there are schools that help you with your talents and your personality, it’s only for young people 4/12 years old, it’s a new project in Amsterdam. but i am to old for it 
If i was good enough with english, you was already making miljons hahaha, because alot of people have it, if you have schitzofrenia then you have got problems with social life, school, and most of normal things, but i hate school in Holland it’s diffrent everything
I have had a few experiences lately that tested my ability to stay cool. We know it as “cockblocking”, though in these instances I was nearly cold cocked. I am a happy person and do what I can to share a positive vibe when mingling with the downtown folk. At the bars (thats the first problem) I sometimes invite self to chat with a girl who is among friends. When I get a good response from her I am met with fierce opposition from one of the girlfriends. The first time the friend told me to get the fuck up and walk away. I couldnt leave on a bad note so I ignored it and changed the subject, now focusing all my attention on the bitchy one until she calms down a bit, which she seems to. The moment I turn to the nice girl the bitchy one stands up and shoves her hand in between us and tells me I dont get to talk to her and to walk away. Very nasty. My heart is pumping like crazy because I want to go off on her. I breathe deep and try one more time to calm her so that I can leave on a good note. The cycle continued once more, so I got up and left but couldnt help using the one word I should never use no matter how nasty a chick can get.
The other instance was almost the same. The girl im interested in is this beautiful indian gal (dot). We chat, things are nice, I tell her she stands out, that her brown skin is lovely, she smiles, we chat a bit more and go our seperate ways to mingle and dance. Returning to my chair to order a drink Im met with her girlfriend. Also an attractive black girl, until she opened her mouth. She proceeds to tell me in so many ways how she despises me. I smile and try to turn up the charm, to no avail. I remind her that there are no laws against me talking anyone I choose. (they were a group of law students) She alas gets up to move away from me. I did not sware this time but let it go altogether. I wonder if coming off as too confident is the culprit to all this animosity? –wolfe
Hola!
I am a little late with the review because Im too busy goign out with all the girls I approach on the weekend! I took Sasha’s bootcamp in Amsterdam and while its corny to say it it really changed my life. I was already doing approached before I met Sasha, but his personal approach to the bootcamp and specific feedback to each student improved my game 300%, I am now much more comfortable approaching single girls and can apprach groups/couples whatever and overall I learnt how to have more fun and make deeper connections with women. Sasha is truly an impressive person and is definitely a role model! Highly recommend the bootcamp!
hey i was just wondering how much do i need to save up to go on one of these boot camps???
Just wanted to drop a line and say thanks for your inspiration and free knowledge you put out on the net. I’ve taken my own steps towards personal liberation; approaching girls and being direct has liberated me tremendously.
first thanks for the advice ,i was really good to met you even if i was so fucking awkward (sorry about that). i will defenetly go and pay the full price to the next talk near my city
again nice to met you sorry for the problems
10 euro 18yr old date guy (i own you a six)
you are an inspiration to a lot of people, thanks dude
blu
MILLIonS!! (Well, they are worth millions) …. but all the information on bootcamps is on
http://sashapua.com/bootcamp/
hi sasha,
just watched the video with isabel and love what you are guys are doing.
i wanted to ask where i can find out more about isabel.
thank you, love your work, you are an inspiration.
foxaston
sasha is the man!
sasha come to Vancouver BC, Canada!!
What’s up Sasha (& team)
I just arrived home from a talk by Paul Harley the “inner game” coach and have to say the guy is a legend!
He’s called out that part of the community that just endlessly approach women like emotionless robots.
Today I met some great women by embracing the nervous excitement instead of trying to cover it up and that feels so refreshing.
Can’t wait for some content from this guy.
With love from the UK. x
I will try make it in 2013
… Its far away!!
Amazing stuff! I dont know where to begin to thank you for doing all your hard work and sharing it with us. And I agree with another person up there… come to Vancouver Canada. Youre from Canada Sasha and you dont even come West!!
Cheers
SEND ME THE NEWS LETTER AND SHIT IM NOT A FUCKING retard
Amazing new video, my friend, about “are you living YOUR life?” – utterly awe-inspiring.
I posted it up on my Facebook page as I feel many of my friends could do with watching it. Guess what though? I didn’t get one single comment.
However, I’ve only got to post up something about some trashy TV series, and I’m deluged with replies.
Guess that tells us the type of society we are living in.
Hey Sasha
I wanna thank you for all the free material you dish out every week. Thanks to you, I k-closed for the first time earlier this month and yesterday I did my first f-close (not to mention the improvements in non-sexual communication). I’ve managed to become my better self only with the help of your free articles and videos (although I know I can learn a lot more). I can barely imagine what kind of magic stuff you hand out on your bootcamps! When are you coming to Amsterdam again? I just missed you last year.
Huge respect!
You’re welcome. May try sneak into the Dam in 2013 but schedule super tight. If you’re on my mailing list, you’ll know
S
Yeah it’s a fucked up society. But, those that are ready to be awakened shall be.
Ok I’ll try make it there at some point…..
sounds logical
When Going Indirect Goes Wrong
…which is ALWAYS!!!
Quick background: I was always good looking and athletic, and always terrible with the ladies. That’s a frustrating situation man! I finally went indirect hard for a couple years. Made somewhere around 1500 approaches with very limited success.
Next I had a monogomous girlfriend for a couple years. I am now recently back in the game.
All I can say is thank God my friend recommended you, Sasha Daygame! I started going direct a couple weeks ago now and holy shit it has changed my life already! That being said, below is a rather ironic field report.
On Friday night my trusty wing and I attended a social event at a museum. Waiting in line outside, we randomly met this guy who was full-on, all about going indirect! He’s telling us how pumped he is about picking up new threads and dialing in routines. And he didn’t just talk about it, he actually did it!
The best way I can describe watching it, is painful. Like, really, really painful. Watching him put all this focus on the content of these composed stories, trying so hard to look cool. Oh my gosh it was so weak! So incredibly freaking weak!!
He had this line he kept using, where he’d walk up to a group that my wing or I were talking with, and he’d say “Hey- I’m their bodyguard, so…” And then stop talking. And everyone would stop and look at each other, like “umm, okay…” all thinking “what the fuck is this guy talking about?!” Every time he did it, it was so confusing and unnatural.
At one point I was chatting up these two girls. I was like 30 seconds in, and they were just realizing that I wasn’t some stranger, I was the man they wanted to be talking to. That’s when he rolled in with the body guard line, speaking half over his shoulder of course. Immediately their interest was turned back some noticeable amount. Due to our positions, I was left talking to the friend of the pretty girl. They were actually both fun to talk to, so I really didn’t mind talking to the friend. Trouble is, once he’d “rolled off” after a couple minutes, the pretty girl’s interest was turned way off. You could just see the confusion, suspicion, and ultimately her disappointment that a male would be so afraid to be himself.
The pretty one then had to go help volunteer for a bit. I was waiting around for her to come back as there weren’t many other girls around that I wanted to talk to. I was half having a conversation with the friend and Mr. Indirect, trying to get past my being so turned off by his indirect style. Then, I couldn’t believe it: He actually started the jealous girlfriend routine! “Hey! …So I have this friend, and she…” I was like oh my gosh I can’t stay here! and I immediately walked away in shock.
I went to enjoy some of the free gourmet soda nearby. I eventually made my way back and the pretty girl returned. Of course the friend that had heard the girlfriend routine immediately turned toward her pretty friend, away from Mr. Indirect. They were both rather turned off at that point. I tried to move us all past the bullshit we had all just suffered through, but he was still there, and looking at me. You could see him searching for the next stored routine to hit the play button on. So I just said exactly what I was thinking, and bailed. “You girls seem a lot of fun and I appreciate your friendliness. You’re both lovely and I was hoping to get to know you better especially (gesturing the pretty girl), but you both have such nice smiles. I’m going to walk around. It’ll be cool if I run into you again.” And I walked away.
Later Mr. Indirect was talking with my wing. A couple minutes in he started explaining how he’s “naturally cocky and funny.” I said “okay, David Deangelo has some good fundamentals, but you’re not understanding the point.” He got all excited that I knew who DD was. Then I told him as clear as I could: “I tried indirect for a long time. I put a lot of effort into it. I did not get a lot of success. A couple weeks ago I switched to direct, and I can guarantee you, I will never go indirect again.” He started to defend going indirect, saying things like “I never tell a girl she’s pretty, unless I can make it a little bit of an insult…” I said “Dude, I tell girls exactly what I’m thinking. I have zero interest in hiding my intentions.” Him: “But… …. …” and I just said “All I can tell you is that I’m never going back to indirect. Ever.”
At least he’s out there trying, but oh my gosh this guy was the poster child of why indirect is so weak. Soooooooo fucking weak!!!
Naturally, my wing and I found some success, and Mr. Indirect did not. But he still found time to drop the body guard line one last time on the way out when I was finally talking to this other very good looking girl I had really wanted to meet! I just looked down and couldn’t believe it. It had the same effect as every other time: confusion, and loss of momentum. Fortunately it was over soon- he kept walking, and my conversation continued.
My wing and I could not believe this guy. And we had actually done that shit! Oh my gosh. Witnessing it was downright painful.
Aside: The very good looking girl at the end was enrolled in grad school and totally motivated for it (means a lot to me). She also works out 4 to 5 times a week. I told her that’s sexy. She gave me her number and we later made plans to meet up next week.
Sasha you’re the man and you motivate the shit out of me!
Thanks so much for what you do!!
Sasha Youre the man
thanks a lot it has helped me out a lot ive been trying to balance out girls for time. and had enough of it for a while.
just moved to a new city and its a new start to start fresh and let me tell you its awesome
ill be checking the tour dates if your in my city. ill buy you a drink. Thanks Man
Sasha – I remember you saying that you carry around with you little business/contact cards that you will often give to a girl if she has a boyf. but still seems attracted to you, or in situations where the interaction is very short.
So, do you still recommend this, and have you had many girls follow-up and get back in contact with you this way?
Been awhile since I’ve commented. I’ve been busy putting together an art show for a gallery downtown. I put myself out there big time, passed out 300 flyers during a busy busy weekend, met scores of hot girls by handing them invitations, hired a DJ for the reception and (almost) nobody showed, not even my roommates, wtf? On to the next project I guess. Looking forward to spring even though it means lots of manual labor for little pay. I’ve got a serious crush on 2 very attractive women. I know they would be down except they are both in relationships. I know better but packing up and getting the fuck outa dodge to anywhere sounds better all the time.
Hey guys just wanted to say thanks to Sasha for getting me back on track.
I’m teenager using Direct and it’s made me a better person by being able to express myself. And the girls really like that. I’m glad I found out about this at an early age and I could only imagine the possibilities when I get older. I’ve gotten pretty good at the whole concept of being direct and I’ve talked to more girls in the past 2 months than I did in one whole year. I’m having a great time doing this and meeting new people, it’s intoxicating.
I don’t plan on stoping Direct because I used Indirect and it pains me to not be authentic. Thanks Sasha for changing people’s lives and sharing your information with others.
Sasha? Where you gone? lol
Yeah having social shit going on is GREAT for meeting girls. Yep, sounds like u need some better marketing! (Join the club!)
S
Where you at? Don’t drink but you can buy me a salad!
Amazing what we let fear do to us.. fuck fear! Nothing to fear but fear itself.
Hello Sasha,
first of all thank you so much for your contribution to the world in terms of pua. You can be proud of your life mission!
I just wanted to ask you one thing and would appreciate it so much if you could answer it (because i can imagine that you get many messages like this):
How can one live outside the matrix and have a job at the same time? I’m studying right now and many of my friends want to become traders etc. but i’ve heard so much in pu about living outside the matrix that i really am disoriented right now.
I mean you are living from pu aren’t you? That’s without a doubt the greatest life possible. But if one isn’t a pua guru or a life coach, is it recommandable/possible to stay in the matrix ( job 50 hours a week ) and simultaneously live a “splendid live of female abundance? Or is there another way to live?
Thanks a lot for your answer!
Respectfully,
Florian
As long as you know you’re in the Matrix – you’re not really in the Matrix.
If you’re taking steps to get out of it – you’re pulling yourself out of it even further.
Only if you are unaware, or aware and take no action – are you resigned to a life of unconsciousness.
By asking that question – you have already shown to me you are not a candidate for such a life.
Now, you must act…. you know what you gotta do
Sasha
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Love yo shiiii!
Sign me up!
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