Time Warner Center in Columbus Circle. It’s like a mall Right at the tip of the park on 59th st. It’s a great place for meeting people. Let’s meet in the lobby in front of the whole foods.
I believe the address is
10 COLUMBUS CIRCLE, NEW YORK, NY
If anyone’s coming and gets lost/is late, text me on 310-962-0106
Sasha
p.s there is one space left on my NYC bootcamp this weekend, email me ASAP if you’re interested (last chance, I’m out of here!)
Well, I shouldn’t take credit for it. It was all Steve Pavlina’s fault. I was chillin with him and he was like “Yo, do you want a shake?” and I was like “Hellz yea!”
So, he made this vanilla/banana/spinach/brazil nut shake that was THE BOMB.
But get this: The Bananas were FROZEN!! That’s right. You just peel the bananas (when they’re ripe) – put them into a zip-lock bag – and Freeze those sons of bitches. And a few hours later – Voila – AMAZING FROZEN DESERT!
It’s soooooooo gooood. Really. It’s fantastic – and it goes great in Shakes!
I was eating one with Ryan (well, we had our own Banana each. I know, that got sexual there) and we were both like “This is LIFE CHANGING!!!!” …. It’s better than ice cream, but not dairy / preservatives / artificial sugars….. it’s a banana. IT’S GOOD FOR YOU!!!!
I learned some other awesome shit from Steve… but this post is all about frozen bananas.
Well, holy fuck. That was awesome. Jesus, it went on forever.
All the speakers were great… there just wasn’t a weak link to speak of.
Gareth jones is a fantastic speaker and his text game shit (as always) was enlightening as fuck.
Bravo was just as fantastic…. everyone was on the edge of their seats for their talks.
Manwhore too talking about his crazy ass escalation stories and the dynamics of being a DUDE….. and tols his recent story about banging a pastor’s daughter in a car then running from the police. Classic.
Badboy did great as usual!
Johnny Soporno – they loved him. People were glued to their seats…. and he went overtime of course…. The event ended at like 10:30pm on Day one…. but it was great.
Alan Roger Currie did a great presentation, which involved a moderate amount of yelling. That motherfucker is passionate about his shit!
His new catchphrase “Say it again” it great…. I actually used it on him which was hilarious. I didn’t realize Alan was good at phone sex … but he has some crazy ass stories about going mode one over the phone. Like really unbelievable shit. He’ll get someone’s secretary – and then will get them dirty talking and then masturbating over the phone. Just ridiculous. After his presentation I really feel like I could get random girls to play with their pussy. He also illustrated that getting girls to masturbate on the phone gets them horny and increases the chances of them coming to meet you. Very similar to GAreth Jones trying to get women to send him nekked pics. They’re investing! Starting to think I should just go for one of those, if not both before trying for a real live physical date.
Day 2 ended after midnight – it was fucking insane.
We had special guest James Amoreaux who did a very entertaining talk about kinky stuff (yes, he taught me how to die girls up – HOT!) … and also Steve Pavlina dropped by a did a presentation about goal acceleration. Also, he got everyone moving with a fantastic game that illustrated the importance of having supporters around you – and not people that are negative influences. That guy rocks! He doesn’t need me promoting him but his blog is at http://www.stevepavlina.com/
Big shout out to all the amazing speakers, everyone who helped out, and all the support from the folks that came out. I love you guys!
Maybe I’m nuts, but we’re doing another DDS in Melbourne, Australia in a few weeks. I’m probably nuts, but I think it’s going to be a blast!
The guys that came out were – as per usual, a bunch of sweethearts… It’s interesting, I’ve been to other events in the industry and there’s often a bunch of serious fucking weirdo’s. But, the Direct Dating Summit just doesn’t seem to attract those. I guess that’s a good thing. See? Being direct IS normal. Yay!
If you missed it… you really missed it. Juuuust maybe I’ll stick up a clip from the event … maybe. We’ll do another one in the USA at some point, maybe I’ll pick a date soon….
Now that’s over, I think I’ll have some time to start blogging again! Yay!
So check this – last night I went to this restaurant with my ex-girlfriend, and a friend of hers. We were just hanging out, and eating yummy seafood! MMMM!
Our waitress was hot. I mean – really hot. Strangely, I didn’t hit on her the entire time she was serving us. I was just busy hanging with the girls and eating and joking around. I was aware of the waitress… but that was it.
After the meal, the girls starting moving towards outside, and I knew this was my moment.
I walk up to the waitress and I said
“Hey, I just wanted to apologize for before”
Right away, she says “It’s ok!” (Yes, she had to break the tension right away. Me – I’m ok with the tension)
I says “Look, I’m sorry that… I didn’t hit on you earlier. I saw you. You look amazing and everything but… you know – I was with my friends, and STARVING for food. I’d had a long day. But, it’s not you. Really – I think you’re hot – i Mean YOU ARE TOTALLY hot! Under normal circumstances, I totally would have hit on you. Honest.”
She’s just laughing at this point
I said “So….. seriously though – you and me we gotta hang out at some point”
She says “AWww you’re so sweet but I have a boyfriend”
I said “Sure we’re aLL seeing SOMEone but… like what KIND of boyfriend…. a guy you’re just hooking up with – a guy you’re dating till someone better comes along, or a “I’m gonna marry this guy” type of boyfriend?” (Credit – James Marshall)
She said “No, a real boyfriend – he’s great!!”
I said “Well, ok. Had to try!”
She giggles again, gives me a hug and wanders off.
AWESOMEEEEEEEEEEE
This approach is perfect because you’re combining all of my favorite 3 elemnts
1) Having fun
2) Flirting
3 Being direct
After this, I told the girls my new concept and my ex’s friend was like “oh, whatever it’s not that smooth, I’m sure she didn’t think it was funny”
So – when I spotted the waitress I was like “Tell these girls me hitting on you was awesome!”
and she did a thumbs up and said “IT was awesome!!!”
Why do women gotta player hate??
Anyways, I did the exact same thing at the gym today. I came up to this hottie and did the same thing … she was confused at first. At once point she was like “wait, are you hitting on me or not??” and I was like “I wasn’t before, but NOW I am!”
Ok, so I’m in Vegas until the Direct Dating Summit. The clubs here are like anywhere else – LOUD! lol… and I’ve got to do something at night, other than play poker.
So yeah…. I’ve decided on doing a stripper challenge for the next couple of weeks. We’ve already begun
I know I know. You think I hate strippers, don’t you? Not really – I kind of used to hate Strip CLUBS. I mean think about it. It’s just a bunch of horny guys paying money for cheap thrills. It’s everything I stand against. Women selling their vagina’s for money. COME ON!!! These guys need to get some fucking game.
HOWEVER: I’m not going in there for lapdances. I’m going in there to find the fucking COOL strippers, and get them on board as sex buddies. Yes, there are cool strippers out there. There have to be. They can’t ALL be evil on the inside… can they?
Obviously, a girl’s got to be pretty sexually liberal to be taking her clothes off for money, right? I mean – that’s a good start. And, she’s got to be at least somewhat attractive. Actually no wait – she doesn’t. But MANY of them are attractive. Certainly a higher percentage than the average club. And they’re not wearing a lot of clothes, so you see what you’re getting yourself into. See? SEE? Those things are GOOD!
Now, the BAD news is – hey – these girls are there to WORK!
So, that’s the primary dilemma. You want to waste their motherfucking time chatting away and trying to build a connection – they want to get paid. Let the battle begin! PUA VS STRIPPER!!!
Now, here’s where it gets interesting: Many strippers actually have some good game. For real. They have their own little stripper routines and lines and tricks and everything. And THEY are used to leading YOU. YOU’RE the Target!! haha
So, I’ve gone 3 times and I’ve already been having some realizations about strippers / stripper strategy / etc
Firstly- It seems there’s really mainly 3 primary types of girls.
1) Girls that are 100% only interested in making money. They won’t talk to you at ALL once they realize you don’t’ want to spend
2)Girls that are there to make money – but if you’re good you can still lead them away from it and into your world
3) Girls that are open to meeting guys at strip clubs
Extra category (still under investigation) (to be expanded)
Girls that will have an awesome connection with you – and will build on that in the hopes that you’ll spend – that won’t actually ever do anything else with ya.
There’s not a lot you can do with the first category. As you as they even SNIFF any level of game… if you even TRY and do ANYTHING other than spend – they’ll just walk off. The irony is – there are the women that are the most direct. SEriously. They open with “hey, do you want a lapdance?” … and if you say anything other than “yes” – they get the fuck away and onto the next guy. This is a perfect example of abundance mentality. There’s TONS of guys in that club that will spend money on her. Why is she going to talk to you?? In a way – I prefer these girls because they don’t waste MY fucking time either …
2) So, these girls can be really difficult. IT really depends on whether they like you, your game, and the timing. (how much have they already made that night) … if she’s already made 2 grand and you’re her type – you got a shot. As you can imagine the primary strategy applies – just side-step the lapdances WITHOUT saying “no” …. “maybe later” or “hmm lemme talk to you a minute first” kind of answers. then move quickly … have FUN – be CRAZY – connect. You got about 60 to 120 seconds to make an impression, or you’re going to loose her.
Category 3) Hey, these girls rock. THey don’t even try and sell you a lapdance if you’re connecting. This has been the case with me with all the girls I’ve connected to so far. The subject didn’t come up – I just led the conversation and it was a good time. You can basically treat these girls as normal girls. IT’s all good. (to be honest that goes for category 2 as well – except bit more crazy shit goes down well with dancers)
I’m realizing also that, whether a girl is in category 2, 3, (or even 1, I suppose) for YOU depends on how much she likes you. So one of my category 3 girls LOVED ME – but she may seem like a category 2 to you – or have no interest at all and you’d believe her to be category 1. That’s a theory, but it makes sense to me at this point so far. Strippers are more sexual that most, and therefore more responsive to a)physical attraction, b)masculinity and c)emotional triggers.
I’ve always said – it’s easier to connect with hot women, and that’s no exception here.
I’m also noticing the mathematical probabilities of connection with a stripper is about the same as outside the strip club. About 1 in 10 girls is going to be someone you connect with…. though it may actually be 1 in 7 on a good night. Somewhere in there.
So, here’s a brief synopsis of my **attempts** so far (hehe)
First night we went to a big name strip club that just had ugly chicks, and one really hot girl. Manwhore was already attacking the hottie when I walked in so there wasn’t much going on. We got the hell out of there and went to one of the biggest spots in vegas and it was fucking retarded in there. Hot girls were EVERYWHERE! I had a 15 mins chat with one hottie who was totally polyamorous and was quite taken aback that I was. She was like “I never meet guys like you!” and “Fuck, guys always try and own me, it’s so annoying” …. we agreed to meet after her shift and went for breakfast. It was fun, I escalated – she drove me to the RV but Detail was sleeping in there and that fucked it. If we’d gone in I think we were on. Sigh. We still text here and there but she’s left the state!
2 nights ago- Went to the ugly strip club again (yes i protested) and there were a couple of hotties but still it was shit. I had a good chat with one girl/was massaging and doing reiki on her etc. She gave me a missed call in the end but I have her my google voice numer and it didn’t show up. She was fairly boring, was older with a hot body. I’d have had fun with her, but no great loss.
Then we went to that big club again and – again – wheeeeeee!!! I hung out with this tiny hot black girl who loooooooovvvvvvveeeeeddddd me. Seriously. She was DYING for me. She’s just started seeing someone, i got her email (best I could do) but I did try. oh, I bought her a drink too. She rubber her ass in my crotch. worth it? no. lol.
Oh I had a lap dance that night too! WOOOOO! (it’s my birthday weekend, fuck you guys) …
Then last night I had a long ass chat with an actual pro dancer/stripper who was pretty into me to- said giving her number breaks one of her rules but we swapped emails. her body was R-I-D-I-C-U-L-O-U-S !
she may be leaving town on monday, but if she extends hopefully I can get her out.
Ah – yesterday I was implementing some of my shock+awe strategies. Strippers fucking love that shit. You know “you’re too fucking hot to work here, someone’s going to get hurt – what the fuck are you doing?” etc etc. You have to switch to comfort from this cocky/funny/attraction shit but it works. I will keep experimenting.
We’re at it again tonight. I’ll try blog about it as much as I can. I’m not stopping until I hook up with some strippers god damn it!!
Yoyo, If anyone’s in San Fran, I’m doing my one hour solo comedy show about DATING this TUESDAY at 8pm! It’s at a private location, but just email me if you want to come and I’ll shoot you the info!
P.S – Lots of homeless people in this city. But they’re pretty friendly. So it’s not bad. A few hotties around too … will pass judgement tomorrow!
Gotta sleep and get ready for bootcamp Day 2, will post more shortly!
So, that just about wraps up a week in Vegas with Johnny Soporno and friends. It was fun! I was already very familiar with Johnny’s teachings. For me, this was great because I got to hang around and shoot the shit with Johnny and my other buddies – Online game expert Bravo, Text game whiz-kid Gareth Jones, and escalation from the whore Manwhore. hehe.
Anywho: Some cool stuff I learned was:
A) How important it is to get the blood flowing via tantric massage before moving on to sexy times with women… as well as some white tiger tantric fingering moves (from Steve P) … who is a LOUD son of a bitch!
B) How to tie girls up and spank’em, and choke up – from John L.
c) How to have killer online profile, and strategy to maximize online results (from Bravo)
d) How to physically escalate like a motherfucker from Manwhore (more on this later)
e) How to get all the money from the shitty ass poker players (Well, I knew that one already)
So, was a great week… I wish I had more time to get to know everyone but was busy with my own stuff too…. !
If anyone wants to really re-program their brain and their paradigm for the better, I’d suggest looking into Johnny’s stuff whenever you get the chance!
If anyone is sad they missed his program, Mr. Soporno will be appearing at 2012 DIrect Dating Summit in Las vegas (which is on March 17-18 and will be officially announced in a couple of days!)
